There are those wonderful moments in life when you realise that someone else has ideas similar to yours. And you can tell straight away that they’re good. When you just feel deeply understood, without digression. When you are in absolute agreement for just a split second. That’s how we felt when we heard about the »Erzähl-Mahl« (Story-telling meal), a social dining event taking place in Berlin for the first time on May 20th. The concept is marvellously simple: People who don’t know each other meet for a delicious meal and get into conversations with one another. Now that, as such, is not that big of a deal. But at the »Erzähl-Mahl«, you just skip the tedious small talk that we all shy away from anyway because we are so bored with it and it’s often a waste of time when you really want to get to know someone and find out interesting things about them while you talk. Really talk. That’s why, at the »Erzähl-Mahl«, you get a new conversational partner from a group of strangers with each course, as well as a personal question. What are you thankful for? What was your first travel destination without your parents? Why do you do what you do? And you get a chance to really talk. And listen. And get to know new people, views, ideologies, stories and biographies. And yourself. Because that’s what it’s all about on these long evenings: making connections and conversations, experiencing encounters and finding meaning. The idea for the »Erzähl-Mahl« came from Barbara Zevnik and Katrin Frische. As a landscaper, Barbara professionally plans spaces for encounters. Katrin is a Biographer and passionate about people’s stories. And boom – they found each other immediately in this social dining idea. Though it was originally directed at singles, it has long since passed this category. »Erzähl-Mahl« isn’t speed dating for philosophers, isn’t Tinder with aspirations. Its an evening that gives us the chance to peer beyond the horizon. And enjoy some good food at the same time. Next time, it will be at Conny Schulz’s May am Ufer – which really pleases us because we support Conny’s Refugee Board and our graphic designer Britta created the design for the sweet restaurant at the Maybachufer. We’re feeling connected already. For all other dates in Berlin, Cologne, Frankfurt or Hamburg check erzaehl-mahl.de.
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Erzähl-Mahl | 20. Mai 2016 | May am Ufer, Pannierstraße 32, 12047 Berlin | Tickets and 3-course menu at 39 € per person | Facebook | registration via erzaehl-mahl.de
»A book that causes a stir is always worth reading. «, Harry Graf Kessler wrote into his diary on January 15th, 1891. And foreclosed the meaning of his own minute and sensually accurate observations in words. The publisher, nobleman, patron and diplomat filled 57 volumes with his diary-like notations in 57 years. They are snapshots from eventful times, from the Weimar Republic to the rise of the Nazis. Like a “photographer in words”, the covert homosexual observed his surroundings on innumerable journeys on express trains and during afternoons in salons and museums and put the contradictions of his time into sentences, that have lost none of their topicality today. The German literature archive Marbach edited the 57 volumes never intended for publication and is supporting The Stiftung Brandenburger Tor with the multimedia exhibition in the Max Liebermann Haus, which is putting Graf Kessler’s observations in the center of attention and surrounding them with historical documents in images and sounds. The bon viveur’s passion for art and collecting is symbolised with artworks on loan. Because on November 20th, 1903 he wrote: »Great task: teaching the German to believe in art.« With Kessler, we are submerged in a fascinating world regarding political history as well the humane aspects: The unique and manifold cabinet of curiosities of a world in between collected by a man who himself was always caught between ideologies, the environments, the two stools. So go, see, marvel and understand.
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Harry Graf Kessler, Flaneur durch die Moderne | 21st May to 21st August 2016 | Max Liebermann Haus, Pariser Platz 7, 10117 Berlin | hgkberlin.de